Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Interrogating as One Style of Soft Rage--Lesson 16

There are four predominant styles of soft rage. All four are frequently used, but some people gravitate more to one or two styles. The first one we will explore is:

The Interrogator is the rager who has ways to make you talk.
“What time did I tell you to be home?” “Who were you with?” “How many times have we had this conversation?” “How much did you have to drink?” “What is your excuse?” “How many times have I told you?” “When are you going to visit?” “Why don’t you ever call?”

The interrogator employs a rapid series of questions to control, manipulate, shame, judge, etc. leaving everyone exhausted and willing to sign any confession just to get out of the cold cement room, with one dim light bulb and a one-way mirror.

Question: Do you know anyone like this?

In Lesson 17 we will look at those who tend to gravitate "The Intimidation".

For more information go to johnleebooks.com or read The Anger Solution: The Proven Method for Attaining Calm and Developing Healthy, Long-Lasting Relationships, Facing the Fire: Experiencing and Expressing Anger Appropriately, The Missing Peace--all available on Amazon.com.

No comments:

Post a Comment