Outragers tend to be active in their persecution of others who don’t feel, think, believe or behave like them. Outragers curse loudly; throw things, scream and never lower their voice. It’s hard to say which of the two are more dangerous to relationships.
Some of you may think that outrage can be a positive thing. For example, if someone is falsely accused of a crime, the public becomes “outraged” until the media gets involved forcing the city for a new trial where he is found innocent and eventually set free. Sounds great, except for one thing: that’s not destructive outrage because no one gets hurt., that’s anger expressed appropriately.
Whether you find yourself or someone you know in either or both categories take heart. You are about to be introduced to a tool that can help and even heal while turning both the enrager and outrager into a person who talks, acts, thinks and feels like what indigenous cultures refer to as “human beings.”
Question: Do you see yourself or someone you know leaning more towards "outraging" or "enraging".
In Lesson 22 you will be given "the best kept secret in psychology" to help turn soft rage into appropriate anger.
For more information go to johnleebooks.com and read The Anger Solution: The Proven Method for Attaining Calm and Developing Healthy, Long-Lasting Relationships, Facing the Fire: Experiencing and Expressing Anger Appropriately, The Missing Peace--all available on Amazon.com.
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