"Too Little" Can Be A Regressor That Leads To Rage: Lesson 32

The other very popular regression producer is “too little.” Again the phrase “too little, too late” comes to mind. All the things that regress people when they are given in excess can just easily regress others if they aren’t given enough of it. The lack or small amount of anything like food, touch or attention propels them into that small, little feeling.

Too little tenderness, sex, rest, solitude, or companionship can transfer a person right back to their past. Our bodies, minds, and psyche need order and balance to function properly. This deprivation keeps you regressed until you balance things out.

Think back to the children’s story of The Three Bears and Goldie Locks. This is a remedial way of teaching about regression and how children and grownups must find out what is “Just Right” for them. The job that is too big can repel us out of the present. A job that does not stimulate us is too little. A visit with one’s parents that is too long leaves us wanting a blanky and a bottle. Visits that are too infrequent and too short leave us longing and lying down in a short bed of regression.

Question: If you get "too little" of what can make you feel small or little?

In Lesson 33 we will explore some non-verbal triggers.

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