When we regress we almost always create worst case stories. Interestingly, Story Time is a regressed attempt to self soothe, but this attempt backfires and the end result is more anxiety—not less—and deeper regression. These fictitious stories from the regressed mind are a way to calm our fears. Ironically, it is these same stories that increase fear, anger, rage and regression because they are appearing in living color from that part of the brain that is illogical and irrational. These semi-paranoid parables can get quite extreme ranging from the temporary belief that someone is plotting to get you to conspiring to control or even perhaps annihilate you.
Question: What worse case story do you tell yourself way too often?
In Lesson 43 We will continue or look at "story time" as a sign of regression.
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