Friday, September 17, 2010

In Lesson 38 we will explore another Pre-condition for regression, anger and rage--STRESS

STRESS
Stress increases distress. When people are distressed they get tense. Tension leads to contraction of body, mind and soul. When people are stressed and in distress you can give them suggestions, advice, feedback, counseling, books to read, counselors to see, and none of it is taken in. All roll right of the stressed, regressed person like water off a duck’s back and they often even feel offended and let you know it in no uncertain terms by raging .
Not much that comes out of the stressed, distressed individual makes much sense. It usually lacks coherency, and continuity; conversations are convoluted and confusing at best.
Now for the bad news—as if the above wasn’t bad enough—when we hear the word stress we immediately think—Welcome to the American workplace where stress has become the norm. Americans are working harder and longer and with less vacation time than ever. Cost of living rises while jobs are scarce and salaries decline. Work is outsourced to other countries. The average American worker is scared, exhausted, disconnected and regressed.
The other negative quote we hear in our heads about stress is, “Welcome to the average American home.” Both parents are working, trying to make ends meet. Children have less supervision and interaction with parents, particularly the father. Studies show on average fathers spend less than two hours per week with their children. More and more children are being raised in one parent homes. In much of the western world divorce occurs in one out of two marriages. All of these factors come together and you have stress, distress and more and more regression, more and more unabated rage.

Question: When you get stressed do you feel like curling up under the covers and wishing that the world would go away and when it doesn't do you get angry and sometimes rage?

In Lesson 39 We will explore pressure to perform as a regressor and rage producer.

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