Experts and researchers in body language report that 85% to 95% of all communication is non-verbal. So no matter how many foreign languages one masters the body speaks louder and more precisely than our words.
A raised eyebrow at the wrong moment can send a person back to sitting in an uncomfortable pew listening to a pastor pointing out how they have failed or sinned. The crossing of arms, hands on hips, pursed lips or the drumming of the fingers on a table can all become temporary time-traveling devices that lead us back to the anger and rage we couldn’t show or articulate at the time.
Question: Is there a particular body posture that sends you back to childhood?
In Lesson 35 we will take a look at how certain words trigger anger and rage.
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