Other Potential Regressors that Can Lead To Rage--Lesson 31

TOO MUCH

We’ve all heard the phrase, “Too much of a good thing.” For many “too much” is one of the triggers of emotional regression. Too much of nearly anything is fertile ground for the seeds of regression to burst into full bloom. For example: too much alcohol, drugs or chemicals turn full grown adults into raging, fighting teenagers or children who take their toys and go home.

Too much money can make one regress. Before you balk at that statement, think of the history and statistics of lottery winners. Fifty percent of those winners are in worse financial shape two years after winning than they were prior to holding the magic numbers. But even if you aren’t cursed with the problem of excess money, you have probably experienced too much talking or stimulation or food. When you get out of balance and overindulge in anything, you will pay the price—regression.

Too much criticism, blaming, preaching or teaching can turn an adult into a raging tantrum-throwing child. You have people at work or home that will feel overwhelmed, resentful and enraged when you give them too much attention or information.

Question: Can you identify what is "too much" of something that triggers an outburst of anger or rage?


In Lesson 32 we will examine "Too Little" and how it can trigger regression.

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