"Fine!" says the enraged man or woman as they turn and walk away. "Whatever!" says the troubled teen as they throw up their hand in disgust and pout for the rest of the day. Put the two together--"Fine! Whatever!" and you have the three ways people go distant when it comes to conflict or confrontation. All three are soft rage and we hear or see someone using them all the time.
There are four styles of rage and the Distancer is one of them. In tomorrow's post I will go into two or three more.
There are 51 other lessons in the archive section of this blog. I hope they help.
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