Codependency, Resentment and Anger II

A codependent is forever relying on external sources to make and keep them happy. If they have enough money they’re happy and if they don’t they’re unable to be calm and at peace. If their children are happy then they are happy. If their wife or husband is doing well then they feel they are doing well. If momma is happy or daddy is happy then everyone in the family is temporarily comfortable, and secure.
There is little or no ability in a codependent to internally create peace of mind, serenity, self-esteem, and self-worth as we focus on others and in the process look damn good and burned out.

There are more than 75 lessons on anger management in this blog. I hope they help.

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Codpendency Continues To Increase Anger

Codependency is an unfair, uneven exchange of energy. The Codependent gives and gives and gets little if anything. The Codependent enters a room feeling good, happy, and full of energy only to see someone sad, tired and lonely. The classic codependent leaves feeling sad, tired, and lonely but satisfied that the other person feels much better than before they came. Codependency is the way people numb their own feelings.

There are over 75 lessons on anger management in this blog. I hope they help.

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Codependency, Resentment and Anger

Codependency has become a familiar term these days. You here it mentioned in sit-coms. But while it is familiar it’s still very misunderstood and still one of the leading causes of divorce, misunderstandings, pain and relationship problems at home and work in part because the codependent person is often resentful and thus very angry.
So what is codependency anyhow? Codependency is an immersion and pre-occupation with everybody’s business but our own. It is making sure everyone’s needs are taken care of while neglecting our own needs.

Tomorrow I will define this common complaint more thoroughly.

There are now over 75 posts regarding anger, rage, and much more in this blog. I hope they help.